What is Love?
Why is everybody wanting love, loving someone or wanting to be loved.
I dont get it why people just love to be 24/7 together with that someone that they have feeling for.
Is there a need in the first place?
I mean, yes to couples,
time spent together with each other is indeed precious
and of course you will want to have more of those times,
but on the other hand, if you are single, it SHOULD be a different thing right?
and I meant SHOULD.

Personally, I feel that spending too much time together fades the feeling away.
Imagine everyday,
you talk to the same person,
look at the same face,
listen to the same voice like 24/7,
dont you find it abit like omg so boring~
or even irritating.
(I really dont wish to use those "not-so-nice" words)
to me, the answer to the above is definitely a yes!

I dont know whats bothering me right now,
I just dont feel right at all!
I mean yes Im not attached,
So, shouldn't I have much more freedom than those who are attached?
Suppose to be but the problem is, NOT AT ALL!
I feel so grounded.
I feel like Im living in a prison cell.
I feel that Im being watched over.
And the worst thing is,
I dont need all this or rather there is no need for me to feel this way.

Why cant people put themselves in my shoe
and get a feeling of how hard my life is with so many restrictions.
Im not anyone's wife, not even a gf,
why cant I get my freedoms like how others do.
I know all of you are nice,
but its really way too nice!
I cant take that much ...
I feel bad whenever I decide to draw "lines".
However, I feel even worst when I decided not to draw the "lines"
and give the wrong signal eventually.

People. I just need my freedom back.
There is a limit to anything and everything.
And that would include admiring, liking or crushing.
I just wanna be alone.
Maybe for a moment more.
Just a moment please?

Yes, 1 yr 4 mnths is LONG enough for me,
a long break actually,
but sometimes you have to know that
your actions do freak me out.
I dont really like it that way seriously.
or should I say I dont need it.

OMG I think Im going mad.
I seriously dont know whats going through my mind already.
I need HELP!
Where is my "advisor"!
Where is my "venting machine" for anger who will never fight back!
Where are my listening ears!
Where is the person who never fails to make me smile！
Where is "Tom"!
Where are you, I need you now!
Right Now!
>.<

Looking out of the window,
the rain is pouring down so heavily
I actually planned to skate in ECP today
or rather LEARN to skate =)
but
due to the fact that Im still in "muted" mode and the wet weather
the plan was cancelled.
gonna stay home today.

Christmas is over too!
This year wasn't so great.
Vividly I still remembered last year's Christmas, I really do.
It was so much of a difference, in the sense of feeling.

Not trying to say that my group of friends whom I celebrated with this year werent great,
but the feeling is just different like I said.

Time flies and one year just past like that.
So, 2009, what a year for me?
So many unexpected happenings,
So much of stupidity and the blurest sides of me.
So many changes.
Be it friends or me.
Im not sure if I changed, hopefully not but even if there are changes,
I hope they are for the better hahahx!
So many people entered into my life.
People whom I know through friends, attachment etc...
and lost contact with so many others as well...
mind you, the feeling isnt great okay..

thats parts and parcels of life.
our life is like a habour
each day, ships and boats come and go
some may stop there for sometimes
yet some might just stop, "leave things at the habour" and left.
and yes Im trying to say friends who come into my life,
left me with either values, learning points or even hatred,
and then left.

I know this post is a total random
Im just trying to state the fact and face the reality
Im sure girls do love the fantasy world.
Me too!
but somehow, life isnt like that, sad to say~

Many would wonder,
about my personal life.
Relationships?
That marks my One year and four months,
of single life hahax!
Havent found the right one?
Or should I say I have found but things just dont work out?
Or are we not meant to be.
Or am I enjoying singlehood WAY too much that I know the meaning of rejection way more than acceptance?
Im confused too.

I dont know why,
maybe because of time and distance,
the feeling is fading away...
I dont really want that to happen but I know thats all I could do.
Its naturally that way I guess...

Some of you shld understand clearly of what Im talking about,
when you are no longer ThAT close to a certain person for a period of time,
the feeling just fades...

however, to whoever the person Im referring to,
you are still special and yes you know it yourself because I've told you many times
and just recently too...
and yes you know I missed you too.
but ya again, I cant do anything and I dont know what else to say,
for the thoughts in my mind are so difficult to put into words.
so much worst than writing compositions!
I used to initiate conversations because I know you are not the kind who will initiate.
However, for the past months,
I really dont know how to initial anymore,
I find myself such an irritating girl at times,
yes, you told me you like to be disturbed, but that doesnt mean that I feel good about it.
nah, enough of all this emotional matters.
Im sure you know you still stand a place in my heart thats all.
You too, been single for sometime,
Im definitely sure that you too need someone special to be there for you.
I dont know whats on your mind AT ALL!
but
I know you will soon find your that special someone or rather the right one =)
I dont usually mention the word love,
but this time round,
putting aside those smses,
with loads of loves from me.

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and for the rest of my heart,
quite obvious,
for my Family&BELOVED FRIENDS!!!
Yes Im always with friends because they are the ones who make my days!
Even to those whom I just met.
Though I dont know you all well enough but my days will not be that great without all of you.
You may be the "come&go" type of ships to the habour,
but still,
ILoveAllsrsly~

Terence.Me.Han
They are my awesome friends!
Love both =)

My beloved bimbotic sister!
love ya too!

NfAM's act cute pro! lolx

Guys dont actually like sluts as much as they say they do.

"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" are two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

Guys go crazy over a girl's smile, it’s usually more important than the body.

Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend, unless it’s negative, then it’s cool.

Guys get jealous very easily, even if they don’t show it.

Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!... ugh... nevermind..." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. If a guy seems cool around girls, just see how he acts in front of the girl he really likes.

Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

Girls are guys' weaknesses.

Guys are very open about themselves if you just ask.

It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice unless he asks for it.

A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. Poking, light pushing, blocking your way and random high 5’s are tell tell signs.

Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

Guys will brag about anything if you don’t tell them not to.

Guys use words like buff or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you, if he uses it to describe other girls, he probably just wants to sound sweet in front of you, and therefore likes you too.

Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

Try to be as straightforward as possible, if you like a guy, just tell him, they’ll usually be flattered. If there is something wrong with your relationship, just tell him, if hes a nice guy he’ll do his best to fix the problem.

A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

No matter how much guys talk about arses and boobs, personality is key.

Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and talk to me."

Guys don't really have final decisions.

If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

When a guy looks at you for longer than 3 seconds, he's definitely thinking something.

Guys like femininity not feebleness.

Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

Not all guys are dickheads. Just because ONE is doesnt mean he represents ALL of us. Quit assuming.

We don't like girls who are too skinny.

We love it when girls talk about their boobs.

Believe it or not, shy guys are the easiest to talk to, it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticabley tell them about yours.

When a guy doesn’t touch you flirtily alot, but smiles at you a lot and makes eye contact a lot, its probably because he likes you and feels weird about touching you…but really wants to.

Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it... it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

If a guy tells you to dump your boyfriend, he's being a twat, if he tells you that there is the possibility of finding someone else (HIM) if you do dump him, he probably likes you and just wants to see you happy.

No matter how much they complain (if they do), guys actually like it when girls lean on them.

If you add a guy on myspace or Facebook and you don't know him...chances are he'll assume its because you're attracted to him.

If a guy acts like a dick sometimes and doesnt trust you, it might be because he has been badly hurt in the past and is afraid to open up again.

Just because a guy isn't holding/kissing you, doesnt mean he doesn't want to, you might just need to initiate it.

All guys want to make you happy (unless they're pricks), some just don't know how...so help them out.

Most guys just naturally prefer a girl with a bit of curve.

Guys are just as self conscious and insecure as girls, we also fear rejection, the guy who really likes you is the one who will never dare say so.

Boys liked to be talked to. A guy will feel more comfortable around a girl if the girl starts talking to them.

The way a girl moves her body can easily be much sexier than anything she says or does.

Girls: when you slow down with your boyfriend, make sure you give a damn good reason or we feel like its our fault because we can't comprehend that you really just want to slow down.

Guys will always check out other girls, even if we make it less obvious when we're around you, it does not mean we're considering leaving you for the girl on the bus. It just comes to us without thinking, so don't freak out when a guy looks at another girl. It's just natural, and we know you were oggling at the cute guy that just walked passed. And hey, guys can have female friends just like girls can have male friends, just because he gets a text from a girl does not mean he is cheating on you. But if this does make things awkward, talk about it.

NEVER EVER kick a guy in the balls...seriously. Not even in a fight (play or real) or argument, you can't imagine how much that hurts (don't bring up giving birth because you know it's different). The slightest kick can often have an excruciating delayed reaction...so yeah...just don't do it...please.

When a guy is talkin to a girl, his gut instinct is to make her laugh. Whether he is good at this or not, he will try. As a result boys can sometimes appear immature or weird when you first meet them, but they're probably just nervous so give them time and get to know them.

At some point a guy will try to play fight with you. There are two reasons for this:
a) Guys like to fight and show you how strong they are.
b) It gives them an excuse to touch you.

It is very sexy and appealing for a girl to wear a guy's boxers and shirt. That's all. We don't know why that is, but it just is.

Guys dont like girls who don't make an effort. If he travels four hours just to see you for three, appreciate it and don't admit you wouldn't do the same, half the time we wouldn't expect you to anyway!

Guys have standards for what type of girl they want to have. Every girl is the perfect girl for somebody.

Guys don't like it when girls amplify things. It's very annoying.

Even the coolest guy, worry a lot about how they come across, they are probably trying very hard to seem so cool. So don't undermine or mock a guy you like or are friends with, he might not burst into tears but it does not do wonders for his self-esteem. And if you do take the piss, make it fairly clear your joking, it will let the guy know you dont dislike him, you have a sense of humour, and its ok for him to have a come back.

If a guy is completely, 100% honest with you about things he's not too sure/proud of, be grateful, because it can be pretty rare.

Although we do relate many things to sex, not everything is literally sexual, they like just being close to you too.

Guys only like sluts when they're single, as soon as their in a relationship, its just annoying.

Guys will always be nervous about giving girls presents they like, no matter how close to or comfortabke they are around the girl. Your opinion is just too important to him.

Guys are often terrified of a girl they like too much. The way some girls make you feel makes it impossible for you to function, the same reason a lot of guys persue strictly physical relationships.

Guys may not know how to handle a relationship, we admit, we're not the greatest nor the smartest at doing things right. But girls are definitely not any better, so please don't argue with us and make it seem like you know how things are supposed to be and your ways are right. It may seem logical, but frankly, it always isn't.

Guys love anything you wear. Really. Don't continuously ask them how you look every time you wear something.

THE NUMBER ONE RULE: Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.

Don't think that just because you didn't tell us, we are never going to find out.

Our friends know everything.

We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven't.

The fact that you might leave us for another girl keeps us up at night.

When we're not talking to you on MSN, we're actually waiting for you to talk to us.

Our favourite part of the MSN convo is at the end when you say good bye, because that's the part that show how much you care.

We actually freak out on what to do during holidays like Valentines Day.

We don't care what our friends think of you, but we do care what your friends think of us.

Yes, you might be the reason we failed that Maths test.

We are very, very scared of scaring you away.

We don't care about what we talk about, just as long as we have your attention for a few minutes.

Of course, we do believe the crap we read in magazines.

We have mood swings. Get over it.

Everytime you're around other girls, we worry they are better than us.

We don't want to hear how cool your ex-girlfriend/neighbour/best gal friend is.

We will move mountains on our timetable if it means seeing you.

We compare every other guy to you, and you always come out best.

We hate it when you go to discos without us.

We hate feeling as if we are like any other girl.

Don't brag about other girls liking you, it just makes us insecure.

Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.

If you want to know something about us, ask our best friend.

If you do not hug us, we will not kiss you. We think you are the best guy in the world.

We.Will.Kill.You.If.We.See.You.Slow.Dancing.With.Another.Girl.Without.Telling.Us.

We really do want you to stick up for us.

Be on time. We will think you don't care if you're not on time at a certain place.

We don't care if you couldn't come on that date because of the most embarrassing reason in the world, just don't lie to us.

We like cuddling up to you so let us.

Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

You will be classed in our 'Hate' list if you forget our birthday. Do not ask what's wrong. We'll never tell you we just want you to cuddle us.

Do not make fun of us unless we are in a good mood. As insecure as girls go, we take these things very seriously.

Saying something sweet might get you off the hook. Doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

We never forget things. Never Ever. We over-analyze everything.
We over-react to everything regarding you.

When we are mad at you, we aren't actually mad at you we just want you to apologize so we can start showing we like you again.

Please don't stand 384931491329403 feet away from us. Even if we are scary.

Please acknowledge that when you are online when you sign in, we probably have waited ages for you to come online so please make it worthwhile.

We do not care if 50 000 other guys declared their love for us if you never do it none of it matters.

We don't like being used.

We like it when you do un-expected nice things.

We usually don't let just any guy make us cry, so if you make us cry, damnnn you must have done something bad ...

We like it when you are protective of us. It makes us feel special.

Unless she is a moronic idiot, a girl who truly loves you will love you for a long, long time.

When we come back from a holiday and brag about how awesome it was, during the entire time we were probably thinking about you. A lot!!!

No matter where we are or what we are doing, we really want you to hold our hand because we love you! =)

First day in ASC.
Boring!
lolx.
Bev. slept!
hmmm I really have to say,
I miss BSC
and I really do...

Bev&I walked around the school to "visit" our ex-BSC members.
the feeling was just so nice~
awww...ASC is really not-so-good...

Gymmed after school today and then met up with Shan.
and yes! I realised Im sick.
sore throat plus running nose
=.=


this girl is happily chatting with Mr R. and heck care me.
so bad right! hahahax

yes! the nerdy side of me! hahahax.

The idiotic bimbo! lolx. *punch you back man*

BSC Team 3!
Bye-Bye!

18 December 2009

BSC had came to an end.
Went out with Team 1 - Glenn.Jolina.Jasmine.Shawn.Brinda
and Team 3 - Beverly.Julius.Jingjie
and new batch of BSC ppl - Joelle.JunBoon
had fun! ppl!

okay! shall end. hahax. nothing much.
'coz I just enjoyed myself thats all.
Will upload more photos when Bev. and Jas. upload the pictures from their cameras.

Lets Recall....


Lastly, the 2 girls with Han. =)



and one last shot with Laila! =)
that was my Tuesday!

Stayed home at night due to the tired-ness I felt after gymming
and the lack of sleeps the night before.
Didn't go to chalet although I planned to.

16th December 2009 - Wednesday
My off day! Slept for 13 hours! hahax! Woke up at 10.30am, packed my stuffs and headed to shan's place at noon.
As usual,
Chit-chat.Facebook.Music
Bathed around evening.
Prepared.
and out we go.

Shan's Room

.Shan.Meifen.Me.
.Quan.Kori.Aldrick.
.Ben.Javier.
.4 more others.
Enjoyed ourselves!

Saw my long-time-no-see friend, Jiahui!
We hugged and asked about each other
Was quite happy too!
hahax.
Had an Extremely Awesome Night!
Thankx guys!



17th December 2009 - Thursday
Back to Shan's place at around 6am.
Meifen&I slept till 9am.
Shan has to go for her FTT at CDC
So we left her house.
Meifen went home.
I went to CDC with Shan
Waited for her and had lunch near my place.
Chit-chat untill 1pm and headed home.
Bathed and settled my stuffs and off to my dreamland.
By the time I opened my eyes again,
it was 5pm.
hahax. and yup, the usual stuffs like dinner online chats listen to music until now!
Thats all for my wonderful Monday - Thursday!
Bev. will be back to school tomorrow.
Me too!
Last day in BSC!
Bye~

What is Love?
Why is everybody wanting love, loving someone or wanting to be loved.
I dont get it why people just love to be 24/7 together with that someone that they have feeling for.
Is there a need in the first place?
I mean, yes to couples,
time spent together with each other is indeed precious
and of course you will want to have more of those times,
but on the other hand, if you are single, it SHOULD be a different thing right?
and I meant SHOULD.

Personally, I feel that spending too much time together fades the feeling away.
Imagine everyday,
you talk to the same person,
look at the same face,
listen to the same voice like 24/7,
dont you find it abit like omg so boring~
or even irritating.
(I really dont wish to use those "not-so-nice" words)
to me, the answer to the above is definitely a yes!

I dont know whats bothering me right now,
I just dont feel right at all!
I mean yes Im not attached,
So, shouldn't I have much more freedom than those who are attached?
Suppose to be but the problem is, NOT AT ALL!
I feel so grounded.
I feel like Im living in a prison cell.
I feel that Im being watched over.
And the worst thing is,
I dont need all this or rather there is no need for me to feel this way.

Why cant people put themselves in my shoe
and get a feeling of how hard my life is with so many restrictions.
Im not anyone's wife, not even a gf,
why cant I get my freedoms like how others do.
I know all of you are nice,
but its really way too nice!
I cant take that much ...
I feel bad whenever I decide to draw "lines".
However, I feel even worst when I decided not to draw the "lines"
and give the wrong signal eventually.

People. I just need my freedom back.
There is a limit to anything and everything.
And that would include admiring, liking or crushing.
I just wanna be alone.
Maybe for a moment more.
Just a moment please?

Yes, 1 yr 4 mnths is LONG enough for me,
a long break actually,
but sometimes you have to know that
your actions do freak me out.
I dont really like it that way seriously.
or should I say I dont need it.

OMG I think Im going mad.
I seriously dont know whats going through my mind already.
I need HELP!
Where is my "advisor"!
Where is my "venting machine" for anger who will never fight back!
Where are my listening ears!
Where is the person who never fails to make me smile！
Where is "Tom"!
Where are you, I need you now!
Right Now!
>.<

Looking out of the window,
the rain is pouring down so heavily
I actually planned to skate in ECP today
or rather LEARN to skate =)
but
due to the fact that Im still in "muted" mode and the wet weather
the plan was cancelled.
gonna stay home today.

Christmas is over too!
This year wasn't so great.
Vividly I still remembered last year's Christmas, I really do.
It was so much of a difference, in the sense of feeling.

Not trying to say that my group of friends whom I celebrated with this year werent great,
but the feeling is just different like I said.

Time flies and one year just past like that.
So, 2009, what a year for me?
So many unexpected happenings,
So much of stupidity and the blurest sides of me.
So many changes.
Be it friends or me.
Im not sure if I changed, hopefully not but even if there are changes,
I hope they are for the better hahahx!
So many people entered into my life.
People whom I know through friends, attachment etc...
and lost contact with so many others as well...
mind you, the feeling isnt great okay..

thats parts and parcels of life.
our life is like a habour
each day, ships and boats come and go
some may stop there for sometimes
yet some might just stop, "leave things at the habour" and left.
and yes Im trying to say friends who come into my life,
left me with either values, learning points or even hatred,
and then left.

I know this post is a total random
Im just trying to state the fact and face the reality
Im sure girls do love the fantasy world.
Me too!
but somehow, life isnt like that, sad to say~

Many would wonder,
about my personal life.
Relationships?
That marks my One year and four months,
of single life hahax!
Havent found the right one?
Or should I say I have found but things just dont work out?
Or are we not meant to be.
Or am I enjoying singlehood WAY too much that I know the meaning of rejection way more than acceptance?
Im confused too.

I dont know why,
maybe because of time and distance,
the feeling is fading away...
I dont really want that to happen but I know thats all I could do.
Its naturally that way I guess...

Some of you shld understand clearly of what Im talking about,
when you are no longer ThAT close to a certain person for a period of time,
the feeling just fades...

however, to whoever the person Im referring to,
you are still special and yes you know it yourself because I've told you many times
and just recently too...
and yes you know I missed you too.
but ya again, I cant do anything and I dont know what else to say,
for the thoughts in my mind are so difficult to put into words.
so much worst than writing compositions!
I used to initiate conversations because I know you are not the kind who will initiate.
However, for the past months,
I really dont know how to initial anymore,
I find myself such an irritating girl at times,
yes, you told me you like to be disturbed, but that doesnt mean that I feel good about it.
nah, enough of all this emotional matters.
Im sure you know you still stand a place in my heart thats all.
You too, been single for sometime,
Im definitely sure that you too need someone special to be there for you.
I dont know whats on your mind AT ALL!
but
I know you will soon find your that special someone or rather the right one =)
I dont usually mention the word love,
but this time round,
putting aside those smses,
with loads of loves from me.

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and for the rest of my heart,
quite obvious,
for my Family&BELOVED FRIENDS!!!
Yes Im always with friends because they are the ones who make my days!
Even to those whom I just met.
Though I dont know you all well enough but my days will not be that great without all of you.
You may be the "come&go" type of ships to the habour,
but still,
ILoveAllsrsly~

Terence.Me.Han
They are my awesome friends!
Love both =)

My beloved bimbotic sister!
love ya too!

NfAM's act cute pro! lolx

Guys dont actually like sluts as much as they say they do.

"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" are two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

Guys go crazy over a girl's smile, it’s usually more important than the body.

Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend, unless it’s negative, then it’s cool.

Guys get jealous very easily, even if they don’t show it.

Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!... ugh... nevermind..." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. If a guy seems cool around girls, just see how he acts in front of the girl he really likes.

Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

Girls are guys' weaknesses.

Guys are very open about themselves if you just ask.

It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice unless he asks for it.

A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. Poking, light pushing, blocking your way and random high 5’s are tell tell signs.

Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

Guys will brag about anything if you don’t tell them not to.

Guys use words like buff or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you, if he uses it to describe other girls, he probably just wants to sound sweet in front of you, and therefore likes you too.

Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

Try to be as straightforward as possible, if you like a guy, just tell him, they’ll usually be flattered. If there is something wrong with your relationship, just tell him, if hes a nice guy he’ll do his best to fix the problem.

A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

No matter how much guys talk about arses and boobs, personality is key.

Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and talk to me."

Guys don't really have final decisions.

If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

When a guy looks at you for longer than 3 seconds, he's definitely thinking something.

Guys like femininity not feebleness.

Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

Not all guys are dickheads. Just because ONE is doesnt mean he represents ALL of us. Quit assuming.

We don't like girls who are too skinny.

We love it when girls talk about their boobs.

Believe it or not, shy guys are the easiest to talk to, it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticabley tell them about yours.

When a guy doesn’t touch you flirtily alot, but smiles at you a lot and makes eye contact a lot, its probably because he likes you and feels weird about touching you…but really wants to.

Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it... it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

If a guy tells you to dump your boyfriend, he's being a twat, if he tells you that there is the possibility of finding someone else (HIM) if you do dump him, he probably likes you and just wants to see you happy.

No matter how much they complain (if they do), guys actually like it when girls lean on them.

If you add a guy on myspace or Facebook and you don't know him...chances are he'll assume its because you're attracted to him.

If a guy acts like a dick sometimes and doesnt trust you, it might be because he has been badly hurt in the past and is afraid to open up again.

Just because a guy isn't holding/kissing you, doesnt mean he doesn't want to, you might just need to initiate it.

All guys want to make you happy (unless they're pricks), some just don't know how...so help them out.

Most guys just naturally prefer a girl with a bit of curve.

Guys are just as self conscious and insecure as girls, we also fear rejection, the guy who really likes you is the one who will never dare say so.

Boys liked to be talked to. A guy will feel more comfortable around a girl if the girl starts talking to them.

The way a girl moves her body can easily be much sexier than anything she says or does.

Girls: when you slow down with your boyfriend, make sure you give a damn good reason or we feel like its our fault because we can't comprehend that you really just want to slow down.

Guys will always check out other girls, even if we make it less obvious when we're around you, it does not mean we're considering leaving you for the girl on the bus. It just comes to us without thinking, so don't freak out when a guy looks at another girl. It's just natural, and we know you were oggling at the cute guy that just walked passed. And hey, guys can have female friends just like girls can have male friends, just because he gets a text from a girl does not mean he is cheating on you. But if this does make things awkward, talk about it.

NEVER EVER kick a guy in the balls...seriously. Not even in a fight (play or real) or argument, you can't imagine how much that hurts (don't bring up giving birth because you know it's different). The slightest kick can often have an excruciating delayed reaction...so yeah...just don't do it...please.

When a guy is talkin to a girl, his gut instinct is to make her laugh. Whether he is good at this or not, he will try. As a result boys can sometimes appear immature or weird when you first meet them, but they're probably just nervous so give them time and get to know them.

At some point a guy will try to play fight with you. There are two reasons for this:
a) Guys like to fight and show you how strong they are.
b) It gives them an excuse to touch you.

It is very sexy and appealing for a girl to wear a guy's boxers and shirt. That's all. We don't know why that is, but it just is.

Guys dont like girls who don't make an effort. If he travels four hours just to see you for three, appreciate it and don't admit you wouldn't do the same, half the time we wouldn't expect you to anyway!

Guys have standards for what type of girl they want to have. Every girl is the perfect girl for somebody.

Guys don't like it when girls amplify things. It's very annoying.

Even the coolest guy, worry a lot about how they come across, they are probably trying very hard to seem so cool. So don't undermine or mock a guy you like or are friends with, he might not burst into tears but it does not do wonders for his self-esteem. And if you do take the piss, make it fairly clear your joking, it will let the guy know you dont dislike him, you have a sense of humour, and its ok for him to have a come back.

If a guy is completely, 100% honest with you about things he's not too sure/proud of, be grateful, because it can be pretty rare.

Although we do relate many things to sex, not everything is literally sexual, they like just being close to you too.

Guys only like sluts when they're single, as soon as their in a relationship, its just annoying.

Guys will always be nervous about giving girls presents they like, no matter how close to or comfortabke they are around the girl. Your opinion is just too important to him.

Guys are often terrified of a girl they like too much. The way some girls make you feel makes it impossible for you to function, the same reason a lot of guys persue strictly physical relationships.

Guys may not know how to handle a relationship, we admit, we're not the greatest nor the smartest at doing things right. But girls are definitely not any better, so please don't argue with us and make it seem like you know how things are supposed to be and your ways are right. It may seem logical, but frankly, it always isn't.

Guys love anything you wear. Really. Don't continuously ask them how you look every time you wear something.

THE NUMBER ONE RULE: Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.

Don't think that just because you didn't tell us, we are never going to find out.

Our friends know everything.

We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven't.

The fact that you might leave us for another girl keeps us up at night.

When we're not talking to you on MSN, we're actually waiting for you to talk to us.

Our favourite part of the MSN convo is at the end when you say good bye, because that's the part that show how much you care.

We actually freak out on what to do during holidays like Valentines Day.

We don't care what our friends think of you, but we do care what your friends think of us.

Yes, you might be the reason we failed that Maths test.

We are very, very scared of scaring you away.

We don't care about what we talk about, just as long as we have your attention for a few minutes.

Of course, we do believe the crap we read in magazines.

We have mood swings. Get over it.

Everytime you're around other girls, we worry they are better than us.

We don't want to hear how cool your ex-girlfriend/neighbour/best gal friend is.

We will move mountains on our timetable if it means seeing you.

We compare every other guy to you, and you always come out best.

We hate it when you go to discos without us.

We hate feeling as if we are like any other girl.

Don't brag about other girls liking you, it just makes us insecure.

Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.

If you want to know something about us, ask our best friend.

If you do not hug us, we will not kiss you. We think you are the best guy in the world.

We.Will.Kill.You.If.We.See.You.Slow.Dancing.With.Another.Girl.Without.Telling.Us.

We really do want you to stick up for us.

Be on time. We will think you don't care if you're not on time at a certain place.

We don't care if you couldn't come on that date because of the most embarrassing reason in the world, just don't lie to us.

We like cuddling up to you so let us.

Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

You will be classed in our 'Hate' list if you forget our birthday. Do not ask what's wrong. We'll never tell you we just want you to cuddle us.

Do not make fun of us unless we are in a good mood. As insecure as girls go, we take these things very seriously.

Saying something sweet might get you off the hook. Doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

We never forget things. Never Ever. We over-analyze everything.
We over-react to everything regarding you.

When we are mad at you, we aren't actually mad at you we just want you to apologize so we can start showing we like you again.

Please don't stand 384931491329403 feet away from us. Even if we are scary.

Please acknowledge that when you are online when you sign in, we probably have waited ages for you to come online so please make it worthwhile.

We do not care if 50 000 other guys declared their love for us if you never do it none of it matters.

We don't like being used.

We like it when you do un-expected nice things.

We usually don't let just any guy make us cry, so if you make us cry, damnnn you must have done something bad ...

We like it when you are protective of us. It makes us feel special.

Unless she is a moronic idiot, a girl who truly loves you will love you for a long, long time.

When we come back from a holiday and brag about how awesome it was, during the entire time we were probably thinking about you. A lot!!!

No matter where we are or what we are doing, we really want you to hold our hand because we love you! =)

First day in ASC.
Boring!
lolx.
Bev. slept!
hmmm I really have to say,
I miss BSC
and I really do...

Bev&I walked around the school to "visit" our ex-BSC members.
the feeling was just so nice~
awww...ASC is really not-so-good...

Gymmed after school today and then met up with Shan.
and yes! I realised Im sick.
sore throat plus running nose
=.=


this girl is happily chatting with Mr R. and heck care me.
so bad right! hahahax

yes! the nerdy side of me! hahahax.

The idiotic bimbo! lolx. *punch you back man*

BSC Team 3!
Bye-Bye!

18 December 2009

BSC had came to an end.
Went out with Team 1 - Glenn.Jolina.Jasmine.Shawn.Brinda
and Team 3 - Beverly.Julius.Jingjie
and new batch of BSC ppl - Joelle.JunBoon
had fun! ppl!

okay! shall end. hahax. nothing much.
'coz I just enjoyed myself thats all.
Will upload more photos when Bev. and Jas. upload the pictures from their cameras.

Lets Recall....


Lastly, the 2 girls with Han. =)



and one last shot with Laila! =)
that was my Tuesday!

Stayed home at night due to the tired-ness I felt after gymming
and the lack of sleeps the night before.
Didn't go to chalet although I planned to.

16th December 2009 - Wednesday
My off day! Slept for 13 hours! hahax! Woke up at 10.30am, packed my stuffs and headed to shan's place at noon.
As usual,
Chit-chat.Facebook.Music
Bathed around evening.
Prepared.
and out we go.

Shan's Room

.Shan.Meifen.Me.
.Quan.Kori.Aldrick.
.Ben.Javier.
.4 more others.
Enjoyed ourselves!

Saw my long-time-no-see friend, Jiahui!
We hugged and asked about each other
Was quite happy too!
hahax.
Had an Extremely Awesome Night!
Thankx guys!



17th December 2009 - Thursday
Back to Shan's place at around 6am.
Meifen&I slept till 9am.
Shan has to go for her FTT at CDC
So we left her house.
Meifen went home.
I went to CDC with Shan
Waited for her and had lunch near my place.
Chit-chat untill 1pm and headed home.
Bathed and settled my stuffs and off to my dreamland.
By the time I opened my eyes again,
it was 5pm.
hahax. and yup, the usual stuffs like dinner online chats listen to music until now!
Thats all for my wonderful Monday - Thursday!
Bev. will be back to school tomorrow.
Me too!
Last day in BSC!
Bye~